Dissatisfaction is that feeling of frustration or unhappiness that hits when our expectations, desires, or needs aren’t being met. It can show up in different areas of our lives—whether it’s personal experiences, work, or relationships. When it comes to the manifestation of blessings we’ve been waiting to receive, emotionally, this is where many of us are right now. We might be stuck in this space between where we thought we’d be and where we actually are. And in this space, it’s easy to get discouraged or even question ourselves, but we shouldn’t let that deter us. Instead, we should remind ourselves that dissatisfaction can be a great motivator. It can push us to reevaluate what we’re doing and how we’re doing it. It can help us make room for the blessings we’re after, even if they show up in ways or at times we didn’t expect.
Stepping away from fear
2 Timothy 1:7 (NLT) tells us, “For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” In the context of our every day lives, there are two kinds of fear, the natural kind that fuels responses that keep us from getting close to danger, and the unnatural kind that holds us back and keeps us separated from the blessings of God. The natural kind of fear is a helpful, protective instinct that keeps us safe and aware in potentially harmful situations. Unnatural fear is unhealthy and unproductive to every aspect of our existences. We need to step away from it mentally and emotionally because it keeps us from stepping out in faith. Therefore, it keeps us from embracing the fullness of blessings that God has in store for our lives.
Unnatural fear comes from doubt, insecurity, and a lack of trust in God. This is the kind of fear that 2 Timothy 1:7 is addressing. It doesn’t come from our Heavenly Father, and to overcome it, we must be totally honest with ourselves about this. We need to recognize when fear is taking root in our hearts, because it will prevent us from stepping out in faith and fully trusting God’s promises. Often, this fear is rooted in past experiences, negative self-talk, or the fear of failure. But when we acknowledge it, we can begin to confront it with the truth of God’s Word, which reminds us that He has given us a spirit of power, love, and self-discipline.
God is going to come through
When a blessing is taking longer to materialize that what we expected, we might become afraid that God isn’t going to come through for us. We may start to doubt whether our prayers are being heard or wonder if we’re doing something wrong. This fear can creep in when we don’t see immediate results, but a delay can also be an invitation for us to grow in trust. Isaiah 40:31 (NLT) reminds us, “But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint.” A delay can be an indicator that a shift in our attitude, deeds, and higher level of faith are necessary. During seasons of waiting, God’s strength empowers us to rise above challenges, recalibrate, and lay hold of His promise.
The truth is that God has already come through for us. He isn’t in heaven waiting to bless us; He has already blessed us through Christ. Ephesians 1:3 (NLT) tells us, “All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms because we are united with Christ.” Through our union with our precious Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, God has already given us everything we need to live abundantly. To lay hold of these treasures, our minds and hearts must be fully persuaded in God’s provision. In every situation, no matter the circumstances, God always comes through on His promises.
It’s a done deal
We must remind ourselves that God set His Will in motion long before any of us can fathom. His Will is perfect. He doesn’t make up things as we go along. It’s already a done deal. Ephesians 1:11 (NLT) tells us, “Furthermore, because we are united with Christ, we have received an inheritance from God, for He chose us in advance, and He makes everything work out according to His plan.” Echoing this extraordinary truth is Isaiah 14:27 (NLT), which tells us, “The Lord of Heaven’s Armies has spoken—who can change His plans? When His hand is raised, who can stop Him?” God has already made up His mind about you, and He’s called you to be His very own. How you would be blessed, who you will bless, and exactly who will be a blessing to you was decided long ago. All that is left for you to do is to trust in His Will and seek it with your whole heart.
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 (NLT) tells us, “Always be joyful. Never stop praying. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.” God’s Will for us involves a heart of joy, prayer, and gratitude in every situation. When this isn’t your motivation, it’s necessary to shift from your agenda to God’s agenda, recognizing that no matter what it is you desire, His Will for you is a done deal. It’s not subject to whims. It’s not ambiguous or fluid. His Will and plan for you was determined long before you were born.
Your great pleasure is to seek Him relentlessly to know His Will for your life, so that you can begin to pursue it with vigor. It’s not about the blessing we hope to receive, it’s about trusting that God’s Will for us is all that we need, and it will yield the very best outcome for our lives. When we align ourselves with His Will, every step we take is guided by His wisdom and love. The process of surrendering our desires to His perfect plan transforms us. It will deepen our faith and lead us into the abundant life He has already prepared for all who honor and trust Him through Christ. ■
Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.
“When It’s Time to Make A Shift”, written by Rev. Fran Mack. Edits by Kim Times and K. Lizzie for Sundie Morning Sistas ©2025. All rights reserved. All done to the glory of God through Jesus Christ, our Lord! SMS is dedicated to inspiring and encouraging Christian Women through the Word of God.